New YouTube Series on Overcoming Pornography

    The Christus

    The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has published a series of dozens of YouTube videos addressing concerns about pornography. These new videos focus specifically on three main topics: personal pornography recovery, pornography use by a spouse, and parenting a child using pornography.

    Opening Up a Key Step for Recovery

    “You have to let someone else know. You have to lose the anonymity,” said Bernie Anderson, pastor, public speaker and author in the video “Opening Up about a Pornography Problem” (view below) — a three-minute video on how opening up is the first step in personal pornography recovery.

    In the same video, a man named David describes how confiding in trusted people about pornography use can be a good thing. Lies and secrecy keep a person in prison without a way out, said Cody, another video participant. But “there is a way out. That way out is through speaking the truth.”

    Amy, a woman featured in the video, said: “There’s freedom in just being honest.”

    Daniel Weiss, a non-profit recovery support ministry president, said if people are struggling to overcome a porn habit or addiction alone, “that misses the joy and the beauty of healing because we are made to be communal people.”

    Support for a Struggling Spouse

    The videos for the spouses of those using pornography focus on reclaiming personal self-worth and supporting a struggling spouse in healthy ways. The video “Am I to Blame for My Spouse's Pornography Problem?” (view below) features women who have felt they are to blame for their spouse’s habit or addiction.

    After feeling like she should have been enough for her husband to stop viewing pornography, Kaysha said, “I think the biggest growing part in it is knowing that it isn’t me…. I could never fix him.”

    Some of the women featured said they found solace in finding self-worth through the Savior and that there is hope.

    “We women spend so much time not knowing that we are enough,' a woman named Nicole says in the video. 'You are enough. You’re absolutely enough.”

    Responding to Children

    President Oaks

    In the video “How Do I Respond When My Child Has Viewed Pornography?” (view below) President Dallin H. Oaks, first counselor in the First Presidency, said when children are doing things parents don’t approve of, “we seem to withdraw or withhold love — and yet love is the first commandment in a family relationship.”

    Church leaders stressed how the first reaction people have is to hide when they are struggling with pornography. The right reaction — a calm reaction — can truly make all the difference.

    Turning to the Power of Jesus Christ

    Sister Sharon Eubank, first counselor in the Relief Society general presidency, focused on the power of the Savior, which parents and children can utilize to be able to overcome the grip of pornography.

    “We all make mistakes. Jesus knows that. He paid with His blood so that we can recover from our mistakes,” she said. “All we have to do is to turn to Him, and He’ll lend us power so that we can recover and try again.”

    See the entire series on overcoming pornography here.